*Disclaimer: This is a sponsored post courtesy of IDentity Lingerie. I only collaborate with brands I truly love and all opinions are my own.

I’ll admit, I’m a big fan of lingerie. I love anything that makes me feel sexy and empowered, and for me, skimpy intimates do just that. So, when I was offered a chance to work with IDentity lingerie, I couldn’t pass it up!

First of All – Who is IDentity Lingerie?

IDentity Lingerie is a luxury clothing brand from the UK. It’s a small, family-owned business which specializes in luxury intimate apparel. Keyword here being luxury because their products are beyond glamorous!

But, that’s not the only thing I love about them!

Woman wearing red lingerie while laying on bed


They make nightgowns, pyjamas (that’s how they spell it over there!), dresses, bras, and underwear. Further, all of their items are hand-made in Europe by artisans who are compensated and treated ethically. Meaning, you can be sure that what you’re wearing wasn’t made in a sweat-shop or with child-labor. For me, that’s a big deal!


Oh, and did I mention that all the products are made with incredibly high-quality materials? By using silk, lace, and satin, it not only makes the clothing look (and feel) more beautiful and elegant, it helps the environment. Along with their use of sustainable materials, IDentity lingerie makes everything on-demand, which means they don’t burn unsold items.    


What’s more, the fact that they don’t rely on mass-production also means that they can make custom sizes and designs. Because all body types deserve to be celebrated and made to feel sexy.

What Does it Mean to be Sexy?

By definition, “being sexy” means to be attractive, alluring, or exciting and having the ability to arouse desire in others.

That’s fine, and all, but… what does it actually mean to be sexy? To find out, I decided to ask around on Twitter. Here are some of my favorite responses:

Being confident in who you are as a person, not what you look like


Confidence and loving oneself


Being confident in yourself physically, emotionally, spiritually, and mentally


Confidence 100% owning your power and being playful


Wearing clothes that make you feel confident


Confidence with a dose of humility


Do you sense a pattern here? It’s all about confidence! That’s where IDentity Lingerie comes in. Confidence is a state of mind, yes, but you can actively improve your level of confidence by wearing something designed to make you look and feel sexy.

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5 Ways to Be Sexy with IDentity Lingerie

1. Wear a Matching Bra and Underwear Set

I’m a sucker for some good old-fashioned lingerie. And I don’t know about you, but when I think lingerie, I think lace.

You can always opt to wear just a lacy bra or pair of underwear, but I personally love the way it looks when you wear a matching set.

I chose a really cute, lacy thong to pair with the lace longline bralette – it’s a perfect mix of comfort and seduction.

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Model wearing the Triangle Longline Bralette & Lace Thong

2. Create Anticipation with an Elegant Dressing Gown

In addition, I chose this black satin dressing gown – it feels so luxurious when I wear it! But, it’s also great for creating anticipation.


Because you can wear nothing underneath of course!

Here’s a tip – throw this, and this only on one night, walk up to your love, and then just let it fall off.

Talk about sexy!

Wearing the black satin dressing gown from IDentity Lingerie
Wearing the black satin dressing gown from IDentity

3. Wear some Sexy Silk PJ’s

Who said pyjamas have to be frumpy? While I do like to fall asleep in an old t-shirt on occasion, there’s something to be said for a really sexy, beautiful pair of PJ’s. This pair of navy silk pyjamas is a perfect choice for that.

I love this one so much. Somehow, the fabric is both thick and lightweight. I honestly don’t know how they’ve managed that, but whatever they’re doing works because it’s incredibly comfy to sleep in. It’s probably my favorite thing from IDentity Lingerie.

We know that a good night’s sleep is one of the most important things in our lives. Luckily women’s nightwear & sleepwear is our specialty! High-quality silky satin & soft lace will make you feel comfy and beautiful at the same time.
Drinking coffee in front of the fire
Wearing the Silk Navy pyjamas from IDentity Lingerie
Having my morning coffee (with a morning fire!) while wearing the Silk Navy Pyjamas from IDentity Lingerie

4. Try Something More Daring with a Bondage Inspired Look

Want to really up your sex appeal? Try something edgy with a bondage inspired lingerie set.

While the silk PJ set is my favorite, this black lace bra and thong set is John’s. Just like the longline bralette, the bra is really comfortable and fits me like a dream. And with the removable choker, it’s definitely a showstopper. Plus, it’s easy to take on and off so you can wear the bra out and about.

I probably wouldn’t wear the thong under regular clothing – the double straps do take some getting used to, but honestly, I don’t think this one is meant for everyday use.

It’s meant for those nights when you want to feel like a dominatrix badass! There’s a bondage-esque element to this one and when I tried it on, I couldn’t help but feel really, really sexy.

A sexy, bondage inspired look from IDentity Lingerie
Wearing this definitely made me feel sexy

5. Wear a Mask!

Yes there’s a vaccine now and yes the world is starting to return to a semi-normal state, but we are still in the midst of a pandemic!

And, as cheesy as it is, being health conscious and considerate of those around you (like, those who can’t get vaccinated) is always a sexy look. You can get silky face masks from IDentity now too!


If you’re looking for something to make you feel sexier, make sure to check out IDentity Lingerie. I honestly love everything they sent me, but if I had to pick just one thing, I’d suggest the silk pyjamas. I’m so obsessed with how good these feel!

(Oh, and for my US based readers, don’t worry, they ship to the states for less than $10!)

What do you do to feel sexier? And which piece do you love best from IDentity? Let me know in the comments below!

As always, thanks for reading!


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  1. avatar

    I absolutely love the way you integrated your sponsorship whole also informing us about how we can feel sexier. It seemed so effortless ❤️❤️

    I might have to try lingerie one day. I’m always nervous even thinking about getting sexy clothes for myself 🙈

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      Awe, thank you that’s so sweet. Definitely try it! I think you might be surprised at how confident it makes you feel.

  2. avatar

    Ooo I love all of these, especially the elegant dressing gown. Definitely one to add to my basket!

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      It’s so soft and comfortable too! You’re gonna love it.

  3. avatar

    Nice post. I’ve been loving your shots on IG. I can tell you really love lingerie! Also, I feel like my superpowers are stronger when I wear a matching sexy bra and panty set under my work clothes. It’s really fun!

    1. avatar

      Ohhh – I’ve actually never even thought of that before. But I could totally see how it would make you more confident during the workday.

  4. avatar

    I find that lingerie doesn’t do it for me personally but I can appreciate how the right item can be a wonderful boost and expression of confidence/sexiness. Thanks for sharing.

    1. avatar

      Totally fair! It’s not everyone’s cup of tea. Personally, I’m a big fan because I feel good when I wear it.

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    I love this! great post. The point about wear a mask definitely made me chuckle out loud!

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      Thank you! I was hoping people would appreciate it!

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